Which would you rather have, a piece of
delicious pie, or the whole pie?
What do you think is more valuable to own, the entire
pie, or the company that makes the pies?
Too many of us today are focused on sales. We're
always trying to close the next potential customer and
add them as quickly as we can to our list of hopefully
growing clients. Too many of us think this is the best
path to grow rich.
And we hear a lot these days about networking.
Networking, we're told, is the key to building our
businesses. Meeting others and swapping business leads is
indeed an efficient way of getting more business. And
yes, networking really does work far better than cold
calling.
But is there an even better way? If business
networking is a step up from selling, what's better than
networking?
Establishing business links is one of the most
powerful, yet overlooked tools for making your wallet
grow fatter and gain weight every day.
At networking events, too many of us show up and look
for the eggs instead of seeking out the chicken. Would
you rather meet someone who would become a new client or
someone who, because of his or her contacts, could
introduce you to dozens of new clients?
This is building business links rather than seeking
business itself.
So how do we do it?
First, building business links, like networking is
about building relationships. But that's where the
similarities stop. It's the questions you ask and who you
look for that make all the difference.
Let's say for example, that you'd like to add a lot of
mortgage lenders to your client base. Would you rather
try to meet them, one at a time, or instead meet a single
realtor who may know dozens? The realtor is your business
link.
Here's the secret &endash; First, decide which
specific profession you want to meet in order to be
linked.
Next, do your homework. Find out which professional
business organizations they attend. Plan to be there.
At the event, meet as many people as possible by
keeping your conversations to no more than three to five
minutes each.
Always begin every conversation with a question! Here
are the questions.
"What do you do?" Their answer will tell you're if
your standing next to a person you want to meet.
"How long have you been with your company?" A very
important question because someone who answers "three
weeks," is probably not as well connected as someone who
has been with his or her firm for five years is.
And most importantly, "What is your target market?"
The answer to this critical question will tell you if
they are looking for the same target market as you.
When you discover your link, hand them your card, ask
for theirs and suggest a lunch date for next week. Then
move on to the next person.
There's an old saying in life that unless you're the
lead dog, the view never changes. Linking will not only
change your view, but also get you to the head of the
pack.