What makes an effective leader?
Are leaders born or made?
Why are people naturally attracted to some individuals
and follow their lead while others have to work hard at
coalescing others behind them and in the end are not
particularly effective?
And are there secret ingredients that go into making
effective leaders? If so, what are they and why are they
so important?
In this article, which is one of a two-part series,
we'll cover the first five of ten traits that most all
effective leaders exhibit.
Assertiveness - Absolutely essential to being a
leader, the ability to be forthright in expressing
demands, opinions, feelings, and attitudes is a key
component of success.
Assertiveness actually helps leaders in their
performance of many tasks and especially in identifying
and achieving goals.
To lead, you must be prepared to confront your
followers about their mistakes, make legitimate demands,
demand higher performance, and always set high
expectations of yourself and others.
Enthusiasm - Leaders know enthusiasm is
contagious. Others react positively to it almost
instantly.
They also know without it, it's virtually impossible
to expect others to follow. Yet enthusiasm is one of the
easiest traits to develop in yourself.
People don't follow leaders who are boring and dull.
Moreover, the leader knows he or she must frame his or
her vision and mission in an enthusiastic way for others
to want to make it their own.
Enthusiasm fully developed is charisma. While
genuinely rare, leaders who have transformed themselves
into charismatics are able to easily enroll others to
"buy in" and follow.
Warmth - Warmth is actually the glue that holds
it all together. In fact, without warmth, a leader cannot
build the rapport between himself and others that's
critical to leading.
Frankly, warmth is not only wanted and needed by
everyone, but it's one of the key ingredients for
emotional support of others that holds the group
together. It's also another important component of
charisma.
People expect their leaders to have warmth - don't
disappoint them.
Self-Awareness & Objectivity - Effective
leaders have developed the ability to quickly assess the
strengths and limitations of themselves and others.
This allows them to capitalize upon strengths, and
build up weaknesses to convert them into strengths.
A good leader also recognizes that attempting to
change others is not nearly as effective as simply
noticing the way others are "wired" and using those
already present patterns to achieve success.
High Tolerance For Frustration - Simply stated,
the ability to cope with and quickly overcome the
inevitable roadblocks that will come.
Others will watch closely how you respond when
frustrated.
How you act when things are going well is easy. How
you respond when the going gets tough is far more
difficult.
Many leaders have lost their followers having failed
in this trait.
Other leaders have actually cemented and grown their
following by rising to the occasion and showing that in
good situations or bad, their ability to stay focused
while not become upset and frustrated is strong.
Next month, we'll explore the final five traits of
effective leaders and how you can use all ten to lead and
inspire others